Today I was in a train on the way to office. I could over hear the conversation between two women A and B. I couldn’t resist overhearing because it was loud. Women 'A' seemed so frustrated about work, boss and colleagues. I felt pity for her.
She started talking about one of her colleague 'C' that 'C' is too intimidating and how she behaves to others. And how stingy 'C' is. And suddenly topic changed to criticise lady C’s fashion sense. Exact words from Women 'A' was “She is dark and wearing yellow top and red skirt. Can’t she see her in mirror before wearing.” The Lady 'B' who was hearing this also frowned and didn’t know what to reply. I literally lost respect for women 'A' at that moment. Whatever is the reason, you have no rights to talk about someone’s appearance or their fashion sense or whether they are stingy, lavish spender. Why does that bother you? When you are trying to defame someone’s character, do you aware that makes you less respected. You can only talk if they have done something which troubles you and your dignity.
Everyone has their own way. And before commenting about someone just think for a second that someone else might be commenting about your fashion sense or your character. No one is perfect. So please stop talking, complaining about others which is irrelevant to you. If you are a complaining person, it is a negativity that you are creating. And no one wanted to be around negativity. Everyone will try to avoid you.
So stop judging, and start looking goodness in everything and you will see how it changes your daily life!
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